Sunday, April 17, 2005

Dontcha Know

I had some extra time with the kids this week - their mom is out of town for a conference. Got me thinking that I could almost do this on a daily basis (as long as I had reliable help to pick up the kids from the bus and hang out until I got home.) But who am I kidding? There is SO much that goes on that their mom handles that I can't fathom - or rather just don't have a clue about.

I am emotional and impulsive, she is rational and analytical. I am creative, she is structured. For every white I have, she is a black. And as far as she and I were concerned, there were too many differences to overcome. But I think this is a very big plus for being parents. Especially if the kids get all these things from each parent. We can work well together (well, as a team, not so much "together" in the same space - that's still and always going to be a strain.) and I'd like to think that she too realizes that what I give to the kids is as irreplacable as what she does.

So maybe a little tribute to the mom, early for Mother's day I know. So a nod of the head, tip of the cap for her. Thanks.

7 Comments:

At 1:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sounds like you two were the perfect couple and maybe all that was missing was mutual respect for your differences. Your boys are lucky to have both of you. I don't know the story of why you are apart, but you will never REALLY be apart.

Love you, Pete.

 
At 4:47 PM, Blogger edieraye said...

That was beautiful. I got teary-eyed reading it.

 
At 11:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Peter, I told you the other day that you are a wonderful parent. I hope that their mom recognizes, as well, that your involvement in their daily lives -- your willingness to put them first -- is going to make those boys good men and good fathers.

Hugs to you

 
At 8:34 AM, Blogger bhd said...

Very nicely put, Peter.

The thing that makes you both good parents is your unabiding and uncompromising love for those two beautiful boys.

I feel blessed to know you.

 
At 12:32 PM, Blogger newwavegurly said...

The differences the two of you have might have caused the two of you to split up, but it's those very things that make you a good pair of parents. Well, at least IMHO.

 
At 10:37 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't know what to say in particular except: YOU are very mature and understanding and a wonderful parent

 
At 7:22 AM, Blogger Martie said...

That was wonderful except you left out the challenge of the laundry! LOL Sounds like your family is lucky to have you! I stumbled on your blog (I just started mine) and am really enjoying it. I love how you write and your pics are great!

If you want to check out my new blog, like I said, I just started, it is www.texasroad.blogspot.com.

 

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